We’ve all lost something or someone. From old childhood toys to former friends, family members to even lost memories, we, as human beings are in a constant state of loss.
We can lament over the things we’ve lost. We can also hold out hope that we can rediscover for what we’ve lost.
This week the writing prompt for the inmates was to write a story about things we’ve lost.
But what happens if you’ve lost everything?
Many of the inmates in the correctional facility know what that’s like.
These people, whether by their own actions or the actions of others, have lost their homes, their freedom, their families.
They’ve lost their faith and their hope that things will get better. They themselves are lost, and they want to find themselves.
We all want to find ourselves. We want to know about who we’re supposed to be in this world, and what we’re going to accomplish. We want to know from the second we’re born what we’re going to have.
But what does it take to do that? Does it mean we need to lose everything to gain perspective on the world? Does dealing with loss = finding ourselves?
Does it mean that you take things away until you’ve lost everything? Or does it mean that once you hit rock bottom, the only way you can go is up?
And who can experience loss? Is it only those who have something or someone to lose? Or can anyone experience the feelings of loss? I think that a loss isn’t only for the privileged, loss is for everyone. Everyone knows in some way what it’s like to lose something, to lose someone. Some people lose more than others, but that doesn’t mean that the ones who haven’t truly lost anything don’t know what it means.
I think that the things we’ve lost are a part of us and regardless of who or where we are, the feeling of loss is something we can all relate to. And if we have lost everything, the important thing to remember is that the feelings of loss are universal, you’re not alone in your loss.
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Until next time.